An intervention is an orchestrated attempt by family and friends to get a family member, friend, or loved one to seek help for an addiction or other similar problems. When one has tried everything possible to inspire or convince their loved one that they need help, but they will not admit into a program, an addiction intervention program is a successful tool in helping you help your loved one escape from the grips of denial, rationalization and projection.
By approaching them from a place of love and compassion, with help facilitated by a addiction interventionist, you will be helping them understand the problem that they have and that a treatment program is needed. Using a professional interventionist will not only ensure that you have taken the appropriate approach, but will also give you peace of mind knowing that you have expressed your love and concern in a professional, impacting, and very effective manner.
Addiction Intervention Process
An intervention is a very strategic process that must be facilitated and properly executed by an addiction intervention specialist to ensure desired results. In order to effectively perform a substance intervention, an intervention team will be established and then thoroughly prepared with the information required for attaining success. All parties involved will understand the purpose, process and techniques of the intervention.
There is no guarantee that the intervention process will cause the individual to accept treatment. However, using a professional interventionist will ensure that process is explained properly, approached efficiently and executed strategically. When performing the intervention properly, chances will drastically increase that the individual will immediately commit to going to a treatment center. If they do not immediately go into treatment your interventionist will work with you and the family until they enter a program, the family is released from being in the direct path of the disease and how to stop the enabling process bringing the bottom up to them.
The intervention process consists of four phases:
- Assessement
- Group Preparation
- Intervention
- Post-Intervention
Assessment Phase
- Awareness of the availability for treatment
- Discussing methods of treatment needed
- Pre-meeting arrangement and expectations
- Establishing the date and time of the intervention
- Gathering information about the addicted individual
- Establishing the best approach for the individual
- Developing a powerful and productive intervention team
- Understanding the risks involved
Group Preparation Phase
- Development of self-pledge (boundaries and consequences)
- Discussing risks and objections
- Preparation of environment in which the intervention will be held
- Educating the team about addiction
- Understanding the effects of substancism
- Understanding the intervention process
- Understanding intervention techniques
- Roles that will be played by each team member
- Evaluation of three part letters
- All questions will be thoroughly answered
Intervention Phase
- Approaching them with love and compassion
- Reading personal letters
- Overcoming objections
- Sharing detailed examples of erratic/bizarre behavior
- Offering treatment to them
Post-Intervention Phase
- Transportation of your loved one to a treatment facility
- Follow-up with family members
- Developing an after-care plan for family
- Debriefing of the intervention process
- Questions and concerns thoroughly discussed
Any two interventions are never the same, however, the processes show great similarities. Every intervention is successful for the addicted individual, the family and/or friends.
When the family has made their final attempt towards getting their loved one and themselves help from the disease of addiction, the healing process begins. Family counseling, Al-Anon meetings, and a briefing of the emotional process of the intervention will be discussed and what actions the team needs to do in order to heal the emotional, spiritual, mental and financial damage that has transpired over the course of their loved ones usage.
Models of Intervening
There are a couple types of proven addiction intervention models used to help with your loved one who is in denial of their addiction. Beginning with the first phone call, each individual is carefully assessed through a series of questions. Your intervention specialist will then design a custom intervention that best fits for helping your loved one.
Invitational Intervention or Systemic Intervention
An Invitational Intervention or Systemic Intervention is the best model to use when your loved one realizes that they have a problem, but they have become stagnant with their attempt to get help regarding their addiction. They will be expressing that they need help and they understand that they have a problem, but they are not taking the next step. Every other attempt has been made to get them to actually go into treatment. An invitational intervention works well with single adults, for friends who have already established themselves into isolation. Also, family healing is a target and recommended throughout this model, which is discussed and developed by the interventionist.
Surprise Intervention or Johnson Model Intervention
When leverage and direct consequences are readily available, a “surprise intervention” or the Johnson Model would be appropriate. This model works best with adolescents, college students, young adults living at home and spouses.
If your loved one continues to live their lifestyle with addiction and denies any help, it is time for the family to set their boundaries and self pledge in order to free themselves from the tight hold the addiction has on them. The addict is no longer enabled by others to continue his/her abuse with their substance such that it effects the family member and those closest to them. Also, family healing is a target and recommended throughout this model, which is discussed and developed by the interventionist.
My husband is an alcoholic who is morbidly overweight. We were separated for ten years and just recently decided to work on our marriage. I had some serious health issues in August and had to totally depend on him. It is so scary because not only does he drink he gambles and over eats which made him overweight. Currently he is over 500 pounds. He cannot take care of himself. He does have a job and he drives a taxi. We both overcame a nasty drug addiction before. He has not gone back to his drug of choice which is cocaine ,but his drinking is 100% out of control. We fight when he drinks. I will admit that the majority of the beer he gets I have to buy for him.If I don”t he will do nothing but fight with me. He will put me down, call me names or make me mad enough that I want to buy it just to shut him up. Not to mention he will have other drivers that work with him buy it for him. None of our seven grandchildren have seen him sober after work. I myself have been clean for almost ten years , I have given just about everything I have to be with him again.His drinking is starting to make me second guess my decision to be with him. If he doesn’t get help I will walk away for good, we have been together for over 30 years………. PLEASE HELP US
PLEASE HELP MY MOM BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!!! My mother is addicted to meth and other substances that she won’t discuss. She has overdosed several times, she has lost everything she has numerous times, she has rolled her car from nodding off at the wheel and she has several medical issues that are from both her addiction and things she was born with. I am afraid she is going to die. She has a wonderful support system that loves her so much, we have a huge family that wants nothing but the best for her. My mom was clean for 15 years and she loved and cherished her sobriety and for that, I know she can do it again. She is deep into addiction and homelessness. So deep that I’m afraid an intervention will be our last chance. She has grandkids to see grow up. She’s supposed to give me away at my wedding next year. Please please PLEASE, help us. My family and I will be praying to hear back from you… thank you.
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My sister is addicted to fentanyl and heroin. How do we get her help without having to pay $1000 a day just to get her sober?
My mom has been a meth user my entire life. She dont keep in contact with anyone she has overdosed multiple times I have done everything I can think of to try and help her im only 19 years old busting my butt to help her but she just won’t I need help so bad please help me with my mom she will die soon if not please help me
My dad has been addicted to meth for going on 6 years now, but he has done drugs his whole life. First, he was addicted to crack cocaine, then started smoking marijuana and became an alcoholic. He still used crack cocaine and slowly began to meth. He’s also done heroin before. I am 23 years old now, my brother is 21 and we were placed in foster care at 11 and 9 years old. That’s when his addiction gotten worse. Me and my brother aged out because neither parent regained custody of us. I just recently let my dad come and stay at my house. He was in bad withdrawals, opened up and talked to me more than he ever has. I’ve never seen someone so sick. He’s maybe 100lbs now, compared to being 205lbs when I was little. He told me he doesn’t want the drug but his body needs to because he’s sick as a dog if he doesn’t have a fix. My heart is breaking because he knows he’s killing himself but he has no care in the world but meth. He had a very rough childhood and began using at an early age. He’s 41 years old now and homeless. I would like to do an intervention and try to get him some help since no one has ever offered it to him. My whole family has enabled him, including myself. We would also like help to be able to cope with this addiction ourselves having to see him go through this. As well as be able to stop enabling him. Thank you..
I have a Nephew that is struggling with alcoholism He is 33 and has been told he only has 6-8 months to live if he doesn’t stop drinking. He needs help now, we’re desperate.